From: Nora Femenia
Sunday, December 10th
We all have been in conversations that turned sour:
you say something, the other person hears it in a way that is considered
offensive, then he reacts with a strong put down, you defend yourself
from the unexpected attack, and then we have a shouting match. Now,
we are not in talking terms anymore, and trust is gone…You wonder:
how did it happen? Where is all this anger coming from? How could
I get carried away into this painful fight with a person I love?
There is the pain, the confusion, and the hurt
feelings…how could this person that I love so much say such
horrible things? Where do we go from here? How to repair the deep
wounds left? Is it better to leave or to stay?
The experience of differing opinions escalating
into interpersonal conflict, then escalating into a fighting match
has left you:
• Confused and insecure about your
• With hurt feelings and loss of trust
• Vulnerable and Defenseless
• Afraid of future interactions becoming attacks
This situation of helplessness dealing with personal
conflicts is the result of a lack of skills…Of all the issues
you have learned attending schools, conflict resolution techniques
were sorely missing.
Now you can learn how to turn around difficult confrontations, and
use them as opportunities to create trust, bond and closeness. There
is a lot of positive energy to be tapped through conflicts, but only
if you see them as indicators of the necessary changes you both need
to make to live better. Once you understand the true meaning of your
conflicts, you will be in a unique position to use this energy for
growth in your relationships in a way you never thought possible.
The ebook: “The Art of Positive
Conflicts: Transforming Confrontation into Relationship Harmony”
is the result of my experience using dispute resolution methods to
improve interpersonal relationships in the workplace, and in the family.
During my practice of 34 years as a therapist, coach and mediator,
I have helped people like you understand and rethink their conflicts
in a positive way thus transforming their lives, restoring relationships,
and leaving behind negative habits that led to painful confrontations.
Once people like you understand the basic principles, they are able
to see through the pain and move on.
There are issues (deeply hidden) played out through
confrontations, and once you see them, you will act differently and
know how to respond.
With my experience I have also realized that
most of the time the root of the problem is that you possibly never
had the opportunity to learn and understand the necessary skills to
deal with your conflicts. Your parents and teachers did not have access
to this information, and you had to learn what you apply today by
collecting pieces of information, based on your “trial and error”
own experiences. As in our society it is not easy to express directly
our feelings and desires, you were left to guess the real issues inside
each confrontation, without even a chance of validating afterwards
what you learned in the process. And to make things worse, your partner
may have the exact same problem!
If your relationship is suffering from each confrontation
and not only the issues are left unsolved, but you also have to deal
with the pain of the dispute, you are probably using the wrong methods
to manage these problems.
You are not alone, millions of us have been
raised in an environment where we were told to deny or avoid conflicts,
never to solve them. The problem is, we don't know better, and so
apply ineffective techniques all the time, making the situation worse!
It is no surprise that we end up afraid of negotiations, running away
from confronting other people with respect, and more isolated in the
process due to skills that were never developed.
There are now several excellent techniques which
do work to solve our differences. This “Art of Positive
Conflict, Transforming Confrontation into Relationship Harmony”
book, available NOW for the small cost of $ 39.97,
will teach you the skills, so you can have the right frame of mind
and use the skills when you need to solve disputes.
Which situations are in need of positive conflict
"The turn around in our relationship has been
eight years of living together, we were at odds end; I was
closed and distant and she was acting really depressed. I
could not trust that she would listen to me, and she was acting
more and more scared of meÖ..But the idea of separation was
even worse. Getting some help was not easy, because for my
friends, leaving her was a slam dunk decision. I had to look
around and find some help with my way of framing my thoughts
in my conversations with her, in the Positive Conflicts ebook.
What a difference it made! At last, both had some hope that
we could communicate at a more personal level, and she began
trusting me, and opening up on what was her disappointment
with me. Thanks to heaven, I was able to solve that issue,
only because I did listen! Ē
Albert G. (Telluride, CO)
A vast range of seemingly irreversible interpersonal problems,
- Unresolved Past Conflicts lingering
- Lack of Reciprocal Trust
- Lack of Focus on Search for a Solution
- Excessive Posturing, Fighting and Insulting
- Ineffective or Counterproductive Communication
- Inability to Demonstrate Affection or
This kind of conflict can destroy a
marriage, a partnership or a family relationship fast.
Now you have a fresh approach and a
new tool to rescue your relationshis. Keep reading to find the solutions
to problems that have followed you for a long time. The methods proposed
here really deliver results!
First, I have to let you know this:
You are probably making critical mistakes
managing your personal relationships by using what you knew
all your life! And you don't realize now that this is happening
It is not enough for you to learn how to communicate
better. You'll find that that simply teaches you to fight
Give up using logical arguments about why is
the other person who should change!. That always turns into
a battle of opinions, and neither of you is likely to change.
Especially if either or both of you are stubborn, and care
deeply for the issue in dispute.
Forget the theories and ideas you have heard
that aren't working.
But don't give up on your marriage or
relationship if this is now your critical conflict!
No matter what kind of problems you are having, this information
applies to you, and in virtually all cases, the results will
There is an alternative to giving up the negotiation
in despair, or prevailing by force on your loved one. In fact,
with this new, respectful way of relating to each other, you
could soon be experiencing the relationship you've only dreamed
You can't afford to waste more time in useless
Don't waste another moment on
ineffective methods causing your relationships more harm than
good. You have tried whatever you learned at home (like denial
or silence, which caused you more problems to begin with);
then you used friendly advice that put you en positions of
either giving up or imposing your power over other people;
thus causing you to be left again alone and behind. What do
you want now?
You can't afford to be ignorant of the same methods that will guarantee that you will be respected by your loved ones.
You're still stuck with the same old unresolved arguments and
problems in your marriage. Now, you need to ditch that old way of quarrelling, that is destroying the love link day after day.
Most people who try to help
you with your marriage give you advice that usually ends up
causing more harm than good, because the basic misunderstanding
gap is never healed. What if you don't know how to fight?
What if you where raised in a culture that discouraged self-expression,
so you do your best clamming up?
Anyone who tells you that all you
need is love for your marriage to work doesn't know what they're
Just because you have love
for your partner doesn't mean you can stop the fighting
and having disagreements, because you don't know how to deal
with built up anger. Don't forget the painful words said to
each other in the heat of a fight, because once they have
been said they can never be taken back, not even with a "I'm
sorry"! And we remember for a long time the sting of
a hurtful put down! In fact, relying on continuing in the
same way as you are now, will frustrate both of you and end
up putting more stress and pressure on your relationship,
making it impossible to make changes!
is more of what you will find in "The Art of
Positive Conflicts..." ebook:
How to communicate different positions with respect.
How to use conflict to deepen your relationship and
appreciate better what the other has to give.
What the rules for fair fighting are, and how you
can apply them.
Why arguing is a waste of time--and the amazingly
simple secret to get around it.
How to become a team when really listening, even when
you feel like confronting.
Why “winning” a fight is so destructive
to a relationship. You need to avoid winning!
How to deal with disputes escalating out of control.
How to make paradigm shifts (literally, quantum leaps!)
in the relationship.
Much, much more about how to transform your communication.
In short, how to have excellent relationships.
what some of the readers of "The
Art of Positive Conflicts..." readers are saying:
am amazed with your fresh and direct approach! After reading
POSITIVE CONFLICTS, I have a whole new outlook on how I
was "attacking people" in my relationships….
without having the least idea of what was going on! Now,
I am prepared to apply the fair fighting techniques in order
to have a good marriage. I tried the techniques also at
work, and they produced beautiful effects on my co-workers,
because now they listen to me".
--M.M. Syracuse, N.Y.
“I have been perceived as a difficult person all
my life, and now I was able to identify what was wrong in
my approach to others….What a turn-around! My relationships
have begun to reverse 180 degrees and moving in the RIGHT
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to connect with others, so my heartfelt thanks to you”.
--N.P. Washington, DC
“I had some different ideas about being
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--T.N. Naples, FL.
“I always assumed that I
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Now, things are slowly improving. I finally think that I
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--B.D. West Palm Beach
And this letter about a "hopeless
“My husband had told me that he wanted to live by
himself after 26 years of marriage, and I was devastated,
because I knew that we were fighting too much, saying destructive
things and in completely opposite sides of the issues. I
was feeling despondent, lonely and terrified of the future
even before his notice. I cried for almost a week, before
calming down and beginning to think on what to do to save
my marriage. I went to my priest and then to a counselor,
and both were adamant on helping me to accept the situation,
which to them was hopeless. They even suggested that he
had another person waiting for him......
I told my children that I did not want a divorce, and I
would behave differently if I had the techniques. I found
your ebook, so immediately I began reading it and making
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and understanding what he was saying to me to his complete
satisfaction, all this years! He has also discovered that
I have things to say to him, after being silent for so long,
due to my fear. This approach has changed me from despair
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him and our marriage are worth it. I gave the book to him,
so we can both use the fair fight piece. With my gratitude,
Wendy in Salt Lake City.”
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